Tuesday, 16 April 2024

Happy 21st Birthday to My First Love

 Dear Yenzokuhle Andiswa,


Sigh. I can’t  believe how swiftly time has passed us by. Seems like Holy Thursday 17 April 2003 was just the other day. How significant that you made your entry into this here world a day before Good Friday, hence Gogo Mkhaliphi named you Phasika. You truly are a special and blessed child! 


Happy 21st birthday, my precious daughter, My First Love. Thee Mdzabulandlamu ❤️


It’s quite difficult put into words what this day means to me as a mother. KUNENGI! As I reflect on this milestone in your life, my heart overflows with love, pride, and gratitude for the incredible young woman you have become. It seems like just yesterday that you came into this world in an unexpected manner (oops) turning what could have been a moment of fear into a profound blessing that forever changed me for the better. Wouldn’t have imagined! But here we are, hahaha. 


Your unexpected birth was the catalyst for my growth and maturation. In those early days, as I navigated the challenges of motherhood I discovered strength and resilience within myself that I never knew existed. Your presence in my life pushed me to become the best version of myself, teaching me patience, selflessness, a deep sense of fulfillment and unconditional love in ways I could have never imagined. I was now mother. Who would have THUNK? Sigh. 


Motherhood sure changed the landscape of my heart forever. The moment I held you in my arms, I knew that my purpose in this world was to nurture, protect, and guide you through life's journey. You became the center of my universe, filling my days with joy, laughter, and endless love. Every milestone you achieved, every hurdle we overcame together, reinforced the unbreakable bond between us. Thank you for being so mature through all of life’s bends, because God sure knows they’ve be quite a handful. 


I am grateful for how we have faced and conquered all the hardships that life has thrown our way. Through every trial and tribulation, we stood strong together, supporting each other with unwavering love and determination. Our shared experiences have forged a connection that can weather any storm, and I am proud of the resilient spirit you have shown in the face of adversity. Wishing you a life that is gentle, kind and abundantly beautiful - God knows you deserve it! 


Ooh sisi, please remember that you will always be my baby, no matter how old you grow or where life takes you. You will always be my child. You are my priority, my heart, and my greatest joy. No matter the circumstances, just know that my love for you is unconditional and unwavering, a light that will guide you through even the darkest of times. Till the wheels fall off…


On this special day, I also want to recognize the incredible bond you share with your siblings, Shrine and Alakhe. Your role as a sister goes far beyond words – it's a deep connection built on love, support, and understanding. Your presence in their lives brings light, warmth, and comfort, making you a pillar of strength for them.Thank you for being their rock, their confidante, and their source of joy. Your kindness, compassion, and unwavering support mean the world to them, and your influence shapes their lives in the most beautiful ways. Thank you for being an incredible big sister. May your bond with the sibs continue to grow stronger, creating cherished memories that will last a lifetime. Here's to you, an amazing sister (you’ll never be a deputy parent, just big sister please!) 


As you embark on this new chapter of your life, never forget the importance of faith and the guidance of God and your spiritual guides. They will be your pillars of strength, offering wisdom, comfort, and solace as you navigate the complexities of the world around you.


On this special day, I wish you a happy birthday filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable moments. May this year be a time of growth, discovery, and joy as you continue to pursue your dreams and aspirations. Always remember how much you are loved (you are loved at home, *wink*), cherished, and valued, not just today, but every day of your life.


Happy 21st birthday mntfwanami  ❤️


With all my love,


Mother. 

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